Wednesday, June 16, 2010

"Honey, theres something I want to talk about"

You ever been on that long drive home, with that significant other. Your girl (man if your a female) will sit their the whole ride home with an angry face. Women however are more notorious then men for doing this. You sit there, as beautiful as you are, upset about something. Yet, you never find the courage to talk about it or discuss it to make things better. Almost as if we are suppose to be mind readers and just know everything that bothers you in your feminem stated mind. Dont get me wrong, I believe we should try and know everything. But as you women know, sometimes you can be quite impossible with your emotions. So as men we sit there asking you the entire ride home "whats wrong"? "Babe, just tell me whats wrong. What did I do"?. And all you respond is "Nothing, just leave me alone". Then one day you ladies will say to the man, "Thats your problem, you never know whats wrong".

It is the quest and journey of learning from your lover that I deeply adore. The fact that everyday you learn something new from them. However, not all men can say this without anger. So I would like to help the men, and the women out.

Ladies... Please hear me out. Communication is the number one key to success in a relationship. In order to eliminate constant problems, you need to speak up and let your man know what has bothered you. Try him once, atleast once. If hes failed to respect your proposal to please change his certain ways, then never try him again.

Fellas... A lot of the times women dont speak up because of your stubbornness. You got to hear them out. At the end of the day, there is nothing better then seeing your woman smile. Its ok to put our ego's aside and be willing to compromise. You will earn her respect... trust me

1 comment:

  1. Yeah I agree that sometimes we girls expect for a guy to know exactly what's wrong and get mad when he can't figure it out. lol

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